Solo Milking Today vs. Yesterday

I was so proud of myself yesterday.  I was finally getting a hang of this farming and milking thing.  I got the kids ready for school, then fed the pigs, calves and goats.  Returned from dropping the kids off at school and walked to the barn.  I found Ruthy (she is the one with the long horns), our milking devon cow.

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Ruthy                                     -picture taken by Marie-Anne Decourcy

I walked her into the barn, put her in her stanchion, then turned around and remembered to close the door behind her.  I cleaned her teats, and turned on the vacuum pump, and put on our old surge milker.  After several minutes, I checked to see if milk was still coming into the milk container by squeezing the tubes that attached the inflation tubes into the bucket.  After she was milked I removed the bucket, sprayed her teats, and let her back out of the barn onto pasture.  We had fresh milk that day, all was good.  First time milking by myself…not too bad.

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Gallon and a half of fresh milk

TODAY, however, was bad.  I forgot to close the door behind Ruthy…

Immediately, three other cows followed Ruthy into the barn… And then one, the biggest thousand pound Charolais hiefer, named Elsa) walked right through the barn and escaped through the front door…into our yard and around the house.  Shoot!  If the boys were here, they would have remembered to close that door.  Now, I was by myself chasing the biggest heifer we have, who, by the way wanted to kick up her heels and prance around like a brand new calf all around the yard.  The other two, I was able to secure… but Elsa, well,  she went exploring.  Eventually, she would head back to the barn, but as soon as she saw me, she would run away.  I finally got smart (after trying to grab her collar, getting a lasso, getting a bucket of grain…which all didn’t work).  I opened one of the barn doors that they are used to going into, tried calling Dale on my cell phone from the car (which meant I was no longer by the barn) and Elsa finally pranced her body back into the open door. I ran like I was finishing a race, and closed that barn door. Whew.  Dale returned from his ER shift…Recounting how he nearly missed Elsa or Rosie (another large and definitely smart heifer) from walking right out the front door as well, and so now he makes sure that closes them… now he tells me…

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Elsa, my least favorite running partner…

Wanderers?

Moving from Virginia to Quebec to Africa, then from Africa to New York to Maine… It’s familiar territory for the active duty military and also for the occasional full time mi$$ion@ry… Therefore having both afflictions in our medical history, yes, we have moved. The good thing is we are not truly “wanderers.” We are not traveling aimlessly or without purpose. I think it is healthy to be flexible (learned that one from the Navy), but also to have a goal (probably the doctor talking now). Leaving the mi$$ion field was one of the hardest decisions of our lives. We left Africa tired, frustrated, burnt out. We stopped blogging, stopped dreaming, and stopped planning. We came back to “do medicine” (of all things), and to start healing. I think jumping back into medicine was a pivotal decision. You see, in order to go overseas, we stopped medicine to learn French, study the bible, raise our family, and raise support… Then we went overseas, had our months of orientation, then started learning a new language, living in a new culture, only never to be able to practice medicine. The proverbial doors kept closing… So, we returned to New York, got our feet back under us and into medicine. Finally, the doors didn’t seem so broken.
After an email, phone call, and two site visits, Dale and I are now serving/working/living in Northern Maine. They needed both an ER physician and pediatrician and Dale just happened to find the barn that he was looking for…that happened to be next to a covered bridge. We always wanted to have chickens in Africa… Now, not only do we have chickens in Maine, but also cows, pigs and goats.

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Please join me in a new adventure/ blog updates here in Northern Maine. Maybe not as exotic? But certainly a journey.

A Walk in our neighborhood

After Josiah’s nap, often we go out for a walk to buy bread, search for bananas and pick up some roasted peanuts from the roadside stands.  We greet the people in our neighborhood.  They love talking to Josiah, and he loves holding the change (about 15 cents) to give to the “peanut ladies” as we walk.

Taking a walk with our friend, Ali…This is out our front door

starting our walk

Where we get our taxi for school

Getting bread.  They cost about 20 cents a loaf.

No sidewalk, but doesn’t phase Josiah.

One of the local shops, where we can get eggs and vegetables. Eggs are expensive, about 25 cents each and are not refrigerated.

You know you are in Africa when…

It has been a while since I have posted…only because it is not so easy to describe life here on the islands.  I remember my first trip out to this continent, about 12 years ago, when someone described it as a “world of contradictions:” where on the same street you would find someone talking on their cellphone (this was before everyone had a cell phone) and  find another using the sidewalk as a toilet.

Well, thankfully, some things have improved since then, (more people have cellphones and fewer people are using the sidewalks as toilets)  but there is still a long way to go!

You know you are in Africa when…

-You have yet to see a street sign, traffic lights, or traffic signs..

-You don’t have a street address (just a neighborhood name) and yet people still manage to show up at your door for a visit!

-Your screen door mysteriously shows up with a new rodent sized hole each morning…

We thought the first hole was just an “accident” with the mop…but after we taped it with duct tape and the 2nd one showed up, we figured out it was something chewing its way in each night…

-The electricity shuts off right after the sun goes down 5 times a week.

-You get an electricity and water bill that goes back 3 years, when you just moved in about 3 months ago.

-You feel an overwhelming appreciation for geckos, lizards and spiders (they eat flies and mosquitos).

-You have to put rice in the freezer to kill the bugs.

-You have to put peanut butter (and almost everything else in your pantry) in the refrigerator (to avoid ants).

-The mouse that you trapped ends up being a meal for a shrew. [thankfully, no pictures]

-Holidays are contingent on whether someone sees the moon the night before.

-You buy a generator and it breaks down… (okay it doesn’t have to be Africa for this to happen, but it happened to us, while in Africa! =)

Dale and his electrician friend “repairing” the generator. It works now, but we are not quite sure why it stopped working.

-You have friends named “Doo doo” (see above picture of Dale and his friend Doo Doo–really, no joke) and “Bozo.”

-It’s been 4 months since your daughter has used a car seat…YES, only in Africa!!!  I know!!  I know!!

Abigail is now 10 months old. She can balance herself on her own feet for a couple of seconds; she can hold her own bottle; and is eating table foods!

-You walk into a grocery store and see a wall of chocolate breakfast cereal!  I think it has to do with the French influence…I have never seen such a thing before…incredible.

This is in our newest grocery store…even our kids don’t ask us to buy these types of cereal anymore.  There can be “too much” of a good thing!

-Random shop keepers and taxi drivers ask to marry you.  It’s always good to have in your back pocket that you are already married and have four kids.  Then they stop asking!

Here is our good friend Ali, helping me shop at the market…where I was able to turn down another spontaneous, unsolicited proposal. And Yes, people try to marry off their daughters to my hubby too…

Lastly, you know you are in Africa when: your friend finally finds chocolate chips at the brand new grocery store and pays the extraordinary price…only to have them all melt together into one glob before she manages to bring it home…

The boys with their good friends playing with legos, what else?

Abigail at our teammate’s baby shower

Challenges of languages

We all know that communication is key to sharing, to relationships, to work, to medicine…and how do we communicate?  Language… Oh the challenges of language!  Never did I think that I would ever learn French… but here we are speaking French and loving it.  Dale will give his first sermon (ever) in French at the Malagasy chrch this Sunday!  French is the official trade language here, used in schools, universities, hospitals and business.  But, there is a local language that is spoken in the home, among the young and old, that is very different from French.  This is the language that our team is learning. This is what we have been concentrating on since our arrival 4 months ago.  It has been challenging and sometimes exhausting, but as we learn the local language, we also learn about the culture and community…

A typical morning greeting will go something like this:

-How are you?

-Well.

-My health is good.

-Okay, my health is good too.

-How are the children?

-The children are well.

-How is your husband?

-He is well.

-Have you woken up well?

-I have woken up.

-Good morning.

-Thank you!  Good bye!

-Thank you!

(We have are first local language exams today!)

Dale and his language helper.

Grace and her language helper during “language concentration week”

Abigail, already 9 months old! She is pulling to stand, holding her own bottle, and feeding herself finger foods!! (She is wearing a shirt that her Uncle Josh got for her at the “patent office” from home)

Josiah reaching for a piece of cake during EED… last Friday.

Our little crew. Currently they are on vacation for two weeks from school. Dale and Mark have been doing remarkably well in their French school. Mark got an “A” for memorizing a poem (in French) and Dale has already memorized 2 poems (in French)!

There is power

There is something empowering about electricity…the hum of a refrigerator, the whirling of a fan just puts an extra spring in one’s step!  Even little Josiah yells “yay !” when a light is turned on.  Yes!  We have power!

Dale read in the local paper that the government agreed to receive (and hopefully pay for) the fuel ship which was to arrive around 6pm yesterday.  Before that, some leadership had decided to boycott the current tanker because they felt like they were being forced to renegotiate their contract.  Unfortunately, that left the island without fuel for the last 5 days…finally, a reserve supply went out to the power company from the government…and now we have power!

Of course, it will likely go off at it’s normal random times, but we have seen it and done that before.  We are thankful for whatever we have!!

 

Weak, oops, I mean week, without Power

For the last few days, our electricity has been more off than on.  There is a gut wrenching feeling when you hear the fan wind down and the lights click off…Usually, it seems random, but this week, there is a fuel shortage…so, lately we have had electricity for only a couple hours a day or minutes a day…no lights, no fans, no internet, no refrigerator… and today we heard that the ship with all the awaited fuel will not arrive until next Wednesday!  (8 days from today) Is that true?  We also heard another rumor that the ship is close by but the government has not payed for the fuel.  Cars are left empty at closed gas stations and the streets have less and less traffic on them.

I am reminded of Phl 4: 11-13

But first, I think about all the circumstances in the past that I thought was hard…i.e., internship…and even then I had electricity and running water!  Surely, this is different!  No, Paul said “for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.”  Really?  Whatever the circumstances?  And how did he do it?  He continues, “I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

Hmm…Where does my electricity or power come from? Is it contingent on the shipment of fuel?  I realize that Paul didn’t do what he did by himself, using his own strength…he tapped into our Father’s power…and so can I!

Garbage update

Unfortunately not much progress has been made on our island’s garbage situation. In the past, before our arrival, we heard that the city was dumping their garbage on an old airstrip outside of town.  However, the nearby habitants started blocking off the roads that led to the airstrip and the city had to stop dumping… Since then a private company was contracted to collect the garbage from the central markets and hold them in containers until they can be dumped.  Over three months have passed and there is still no solution in sight.  Now there is more than 41 containers filled with garbage!  Each week, we and the rest of the city are faced with the dilemma as to ‘what to do with our garbage.’  Outside of our city, most of the villagers seem to either burn their garbage or dump it in the ocean!  For now, our with our teammates, we try to find a pile of garbage that we can add our bags too, in hopes that it would be collected… and dumped… where?…when?…who knows?

At the market, garbage piles up fast!

Garbage is constantly encountered (and doesn’t stay in the ocean…)

 

But amongst the rubbish, one can still see the lush plants, the beautiful creation, and the potential…

Recovery and cooking in Africa

Both Abigail and Josiah are making good recoveries from their recent illnesses.  We thank our Father above and everyone’s thoughts and petitions!  We still don’t know what Abigail’s illness was…(we have our hypotheses, but we will have to wait on further diagnostic testing-which we may do someday, just out of curiosity…) but her fever and strange rash is fading and we are grateful!  Now that our house is no longer an inpatient ward, we can get back to the daily adjustments and navigations of living here.

So one of the other ongoing challenges of moving to the Islands has been shopping for food and cooking meals.  Which is especially hard because, we have three boys who love to eat!  I would remind myself that I really did cook meals for my family everyday and liked doing it!  But, it feels like a lifetime ago… Imagine no longer having your kitchen panty, your grocery stores or a vehicle…Imagine that almost all of your regular standby recipes are no longer relevant…because the ingredients or appliances are just not here.  And, sometimes when things are available here, it’s just not that easy to get.   Other times, you get lucky and find beef at the store!

Here is the main market that can be very busy and crowded. You can find all your fresh (local) produce here as well as household items.

Meat and fresh fish can also be bought here in the market, but we can’t get passed the flies and lack of refrigeration. There are a few small grocery stores that have a frozen meat section where you can get chicken legs and ground beef patties.

Some of our standbys that we can still make here are: pasta, pizza, chicken, and rice stir fry.  Some of the new things that our house help has helped us with are: chicken with coconut sauce, chicken with tomato based sauce, fried fish, fried green bananas, and fried sweet potatoes.  After that, there is always french bread.  We are blessed to have a bakery not too far from our house…

The home practice

This past week Dale got official tours of both the government hospital and the Catholic medical clinic.  However, it seems that we don’t have to go far from home to find our first few patients on the Islands…

Our youngest son, Josiah has been the toughest to keep mosquitos off of…so naturally, even while on weekly malaria prophylaxis, permethrin impregnated clothing and mosquito repellent sprayed on him daily, he would be the first to get Malaria. It is most dangerous in children under the age of 5.

Malaria rapid test kit! Josiah’s showed that he was positive for p. falciparum.  (Need to get some more test kits from Kenya…)

We started him on treatment as soon as possible, but Josiah was febrile periodically for two nights then had a relentless fever for the next 24 hours along with protracted vomiting, fatigue, malaise and dehydration. Those of you who get our newsletters, emails and talked to our Father about him –we thank you!!!  A full day after his last dose of malaria treatment, he turned the corner and now appears that he has made a full recovery!  He is back to his busy 3 year old self!  PTL!

Josiah taking a nap while recovering from Malaria.

Yesterday morning, as Josiah was taking a nap (above), however, our house help friend, Anita sliced the palm of her hand at the base of her thumb.  Yes, it was deep.  I rushed to get big Dale and thankfully we had all the necessary supplies (thanks to physician friend in Quebec) to numb her up and suture her wound.

Anita smiling as her anesthesia is working nicely. Apparently here at the government hospital, they don’t use local anesthesia! YIKES!

Finally after what seems like already a full week:

Today, Abigial has had her third day of fevers.  It appears to be viral, but since she is only 8 months old we tested her the day before and yesterday for malaria.  (Some team members have graciously shared their home test kits.)  She was negative for p. falciparum each time.  And this afternoon broke out in a macular papular rash.  The rest of her exam seems normal and when she is not febrile is acting like her normal self…but she is still having fevers.  Sigh.  Would you talk to the Father about her too?  Thank you again again.  We know that He is sovereign and worthy.